Service Learning Log 6
Activism:
This week we had our last YWLP big sister meeting which was bitter sweet. We did the last event that we will be doing with the little sisters, which is the positive affirmations where your peers write nice things about you. Our successes remain all the positive tweets and feedback we keep getting from the little sisters as well as the plans they have for the items they want to submit to the zine. Our pitfalls include that the amount of submissions we’ve actually received is low, and we will need way more to compile our zine for this semester. My group and I expect more submissions to trickle in as the deadline approaches and some thereafter. This weekend we have our final alumni event which is a picnic in the park. It’s going to be a great bonding experience.
Reflection:
This week in class we read two articles where the girls from the articles created their own ideas on leadership based on social constructions that were provided to them from the heads of the research. In the article Girl Talk: Adolescent Girl’s perception of Leadership the girls identified leadership largely in un-transactional ways (Schoenberg 2008).That reminded me of my little mentors and our discussion last week on body issues. The girls were readily raising their hands and providing opinions about leadership in body imaging and how you don’t have to look a certain way or dress a certain way to still be a leader. The little sisters also identified that society at large sees a woman leader as the ball buster, but also saw that they didn’t agree with that ideal (Schoenberg 2008). In the second article, Change it Up, data was collected from a large number of girls, boys and moms and was based on society’s ideals of leadership. I like that the girls picked and chose what they wanted to keep and what they wanted to cast away in their own ideals of leadership. I was very pleased that they had their own ideals and principles and weren’t afraid to express them. This week has changed the way I view Girl’s leadership, by showing yet again, how much my little mentors and girls in general have thought processes that are way beyond what I thought their scope of thought would be. I learned that girls see what society wants them to do and sees what they want and who they are and then makes a choice to either change their outlook or not participate in society’s system of leadership at all.
Reciprocity:
I believe that with each semester in YWLP I not only give the girls guidance I gain a sense of hope for the future. Hope that these girls will be able to see society and what society tries to propose and sets standards for them, and they can choose to participate or create their own standards. I believe the little sisters have such a strong insight into the world around them that I know they will be able to live their lives in a way that is chosen by them. I hope they will see that its’ all about their choices on whether or not to participate in a system traditionally or participate in a system in an unconventional way. These girls have made me more aware than ever that what we do in YWLP is necessary and needed; we don’t create something in the girls we help bring something to the light that’s already present.
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Works Cited
Schoenberg, J. Change It Up: What girl’s say about redefining leadership. Girls Scouts of the USA, 2008.
New York, N.Y. Executive Summary, 52 pp.